I can’t prove any of this, and I don’t want to be sued. So, to protect the guilty, names will be changed. No specific student or school will be named. I’m also including not only schools I’ve attended (there were quite a few), schools where I taught (and there were several of those), schools my son attended (and there were quite a few of those), and stories I’ve been collecting for years from my former students and colleagues.

If you feel like I am specifically talking about a situation that you participated in, well, you should just sit back and be quiet somewhere. If you don’t holler, no one but the other participants (and your victims) will know if was you.